forgiveness

Forgiveness:

I have carried something around for oh say around 15 years- don’t judge me. Something that has been so hard for me to overcome, and just get over. So many why’s, whats, what if’s etc. and Possibly why me? Last week during a phone conversation it just clicked, it literally clicked so hard tears streamed down my face. I realized that just because 1 thing had not turned out how I had intended that a BAJILLION yes I said it a BAJILLION things had turned out for my sake because of this person. I am sure I have said things to people I wish I could take back—I still do, my mom always told me that one regret you will never have is being genuinely kind to someone. Everyone makes mistakes and even if you do not verbally say “ok I forgive you for hurting me 15 some odd years ago”, just a hope you are doing good love you” Too many people leave this earth with someone still here wishing they had said something a little kinder or been a little less selfish or picked up the phone when they felt they should have.

I really am working on this because I am very quick to words sometimes too much and if it takes you oh 15 years to forgive me of something I have said. I’ll take it! Forgiveness is sometimes the best present you can give yourself and others.

Self discipline

Self Discipline!

Im on a real life discipline kick right now- Please do not think that I am trying to put anyone down thinking any one has less self discipline because that is most certainly not the case I am just basically writing this for myself and maybe it will help someone else out in the time. I have been reading self discipline no excuses by Brian Tracy, man alive is he amazing! I am so grateful for Lyle who is very driven to do something more with his life and do something that truly makes him happy! He is going to rock it, and has worked unbelievably hard! I am glad to be surrounded by someone who is so driven all the time. We are not hard core ok we like to have fun but someone who will not take easy road out. Which I can sometimes tend to do! Which made me realize listening to my all time fitness gal and mentor Chalene Johnson about surrounding yourself by people who expect more out of you. In any aspect whether it be spiritually, healthy wise, business wise or in your family! I have always had a little Entrepreneur in me and would like to someday have a business with helping people in some way! I’ll let ya know when my creative spark strikes. I WANT nothing more than to be able to stay home and be actively engaged with my family while doing! WHEN THE Time is right of course! I’ll get it figured out! But after reading Brian Tracy’s book, it doesn’t matter what you are doing or want to be doing read up on and become the best by simply working hard. READ HIS BOOK LIFE CHANGING! Basically the most successful people are not free riders. PROMISE. 3 test’s this week and had to put my 2 cents in! yee haw

here is a tid bit for you! Dont surrond yourself with people who make excuses of why they are where there are now because of whatever! AND DONT BE THAT PERSON! Everyone has a story and you will always find someone's is worse than yours.

ADIOS!

Car Smart

Hurt people, hurt people I have been listening to car smart prickly people by Chalene Johnson dealing with someone who upsets you. Now I sometimes can be very quick to judge when I am hurt and have been working on it! I follow Toni Cook on Face book my very favorite Fitness Gal on the earth she has 7 kids and is an amazing mother (LOOKS AMAZING) and person all around these are some of her quotes she has posted and I just Love her-- she has never taken a handout and worked extremely hard for her family I hope to be half the women she is someday!

Nobody is going to come along and magically hand you the perfect job, relationship or body. A handout never feels as good as something you earn anyway! All the best things in life require dedication, patience, work and perseverance!

From the heart...all those little things, those pet peeves, those things you bicker about with your loved ones - let those go. In the right circumstance, those things fly out the window so fast you'll be amazed they ever existed in the first place. Take every opportunity to show love, appreciation and forgiveness...

Never be too proud to honestly share your failures - this is how we truly relate to each other and help people. Not above anybody, not below anybody - the best place to be is right there with everybody.

Here is clip of the infomercial that she is in and MY FAVORITE WORK OUT EVER

i DONT CARE THAT LYLE THINKS I AM A BABY FOR NOT DOING P 90X WITH HIM HE CANT JUMP THIS HIGH EVER!! lol

GET OUT OF THE CAR

Ok Ok, I am a terrible blogger but now that I have some down time I promise that I will catch up on everything the story is real short and simple though we are boring. I am going to leave this open for a little while for those who have not been able to leave me your email! then private it is! my email is britty.whit@gmail.com or you can post it below! I Promise that once I am not taking 19 credits and working something interesting will get posted!

Keep your family MODERN! haha